Sunday, August 06, 2006

Remembering those yester years...

Fifteen years...fifteen long years of friendship..
Am not remembering my yester years jus bcoz tommorrow is a friendship's day.. it has a different reason...the ones familiar vth my blog know about 'josh' my frenz..and 'j' and 'o' were issued a visa to USA and j is starting tommorrow to USA... my only best frend since my 3rd standard......even though we were seperated for so many years in between bcoz of our careers.. this time a lot more centi is wrapped up...and the fact that we cant c each other for 2 yrs is overrid by our sweet moments v spent vth each other...
cycling those years back...
i met her first in a picnic in mudsallova( the then famous picnic spot..vth crocodiles in the lake...now its closed ofcourse..) ...though we were from different sections..we still dont understand, how we grew to be so thick frenz...those meetings in the break time..the cycle rides.. the waiting after school to have a joyfull ride on our cycles holding hands..the pride we had while doing so..( that was a very big feat in those days for us!)..the cycle rides to beach in the evenings..
school days.. computer classes.. NCC days..games...tutions in the higher classes..exams...ranks..studies..other frenz..those silly jokes we shared..gossip..and my silly peoms to her...how i used to admire her..and buying guvas after school..five stars!..and run home fast not to get a hearing from parents... how we used to meet in the evenings secretly... and wishing each other on birthdays ..and cribbing that " i called first ..i called first"..how silly were those days.. no..no.. how beautiful those days were...greeting cards.. small gifts.. the sense of humour she had made her get a lot of attention from others in school..but i had a pride in heart that she is MY friend... and times rolled so fast that we had little time for each other...and then came my worst period in life..i was seperated for 2 years from her due to various reasons..politics i wud say... those two years were horrible to me..
I had no life other than her..it was very dificult for me to adjust...my whole life used to revolve round her.. suddenly i had no one bside me... life became tougher... but i started learning things... it was new to me..but slowly i got adjusted.. i lost count of those nights when i had nothing to do but to wet my pillow ... then suddenly "o","s","h" came into my life and then life seemed intresting..and then the day wasnt far when i met j again

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and we jus holded hands n cried...i went back home vth tear-filled eyes..but i was very happy... i had jus one glimpse every time i closed my eyes..v cycling on streets holding our hands... then therez no looking back.. we spoke so much..we shared so much.. and we had gr8 time after that...but again i had to leave to madras for my engineering...and we had these long phone calls and letters and mails... the pictures we took... our regular meetings in our hangout place...and our asusual bench to hang around.... teasing...long stories of each ones college lifes...that freindship day craze for cards nd roses... ice creams..our fav french fries( bcoz we can sit and chat for an hour..vth jus 20 bucks!!)..our all time fav manchurian...and now after 4 years ...we are again parting... she is going to a different place and far away from my univ..and i was denied a visa..
time did roll fast...but all the memories are so fresh in my mind..i cherished my time vth her..and i was so lost in thinking that i dint bother to get a gift for her when she is leaving... i met her and she was busy packing.. said bye and then i thought i vl gift her something...i went out nd bought a " long chain typed watch vch u hang around ur neck" for her..i cudnt find anything lighter or better for her to carry it to US in that last min shopping of mine... she came out and said..u idiot y did u go out at this hour to get something! i am glad she liked it...
driving home( hey we both have similar bikes too..black honda activas!) i had my little drops roll down my cheek...but this time i was praying for her...i was happy for her... i was happy for our friendship...and then thoughts were rolling back to our good old days again... i got a msg today morning- "happy friendship day..i miss u! vth luv-
j "

Posted by Picasa rolling back those memorable times? I cherish my friendship...i love them all.. Happy friendhip day to all of u..njoy..

feelings were cyclying up and down!

hi... i got a few comments on this post.. but i am very pleased to see a very good poet "JAGS" respond to my post..and inturn write a poem on my friendship.... this is the link to that poem..its written in telugu....so those who can understand..njoy the poem... i am really happy to c this...no words

http://www.geocities.com/jags0022/poetry.jpg

njoy!!

10 comments:

Padmini Satish Kumar said...

hmm...dear deepa ...I never knew that u were this senti...O M G...!!
..
anyways...HAPPY FRIEND SHIP DAY...!
I WISH THAT U WIL NOT TAKE THAT LONG TO MEET MISS.J AGAIN ....IM SURE U WILL MEET HER HERE... :)
CHEERS..
-PADDU

Rama Deepthi Muddu said...

hey thanx da.. happy frienship day to u too.. i hope v catch up soon! when r u shifting?

jags said...

Touched n moved...Dats wot all I can say finally, ur post kicked me into tht wonderful past where friends knew nuthing other than friendship. such a lovely post...

by the way, Happy friendships week...better late than never

Rama Deepthi Muddu said...

hey happy friendship week to u too...n now other one also left abroad.. wat do u think is the cause of floods these days??

jags said...

hmm reason for floods...well lemme listen from ur end, n then give my reasons:P

smart excuse ...:P

jags said...

so nice to see my blog tagged here...

రాధిక said...

very touching one.నేను నా క్లోజ్ ఫ్రెండ్ ని మిస్ అవుతున్నాను.అందుకోసమే ,తన కోసమే నా "స్నేహమా" బ్లాగ్ పుట్టింది.ఫ్రెండ్స్ కి దూరమవ్వడం అంత బాధాకర విషయం మరొకటి వుండదు జీవితం లో.
"స్నేహమా గమ్యం నీవవుతావనుకున్నాను
కానీ మజిలీ చేసి వెళుతున్నాను"

Rama Deepthi Muddu said...

Thanq u radhika garu.. i loved ur blog for the same reason.. mee kavitallo..sneham ki unna importance naku chala nachindi..sneham lo unde spashtatha,nammakam,nijayithi enduloni undavani naa nammakam..

రాధిక said...

చాలా బాగా చెప్పారు.స్నేహం అనే బధం లో కావాలని చిక్కుబడిపోవడం,స్నేహితుల గుండెల్లో జ్ఞాపకం గా బందీ అయిపోవడం నేను ఇష్టం గా చేసే పనులు.మనకి ఒకరి బ్లాగులు ఒకరికి నచ్చడానికి కారణం స్నేహం పై ఇద్దరికీ వున్న నమ్మకం,ఇష్టమే అనుకుంటాను.ఇప్పుడు నేను మీ బ్లాగు కూడా బుక్ మార్క్ చెసేసుకున్నాను.ఈ రోజు నన్ను ఇంత మంచి మూడ్ లోకి తీసుకెళ్ళిన మీకు థాంక్స్.

Rama Deepthi Muddu said...

sneham lo thanx lu sorry lu undavu... so keep posting...